“If I touch even his garments, I will be made well.” – Mark 5:28
While there are many
reasons for us to pay attention about keeping our hands to ourselves – touch is
one of the most prominent “connectors” in our humanity. Without touch we become strangers to one
another.
Americans are among the world’s least tactile people. Touch is our most
social sense. Unlike seeing, hearing or smelling, touch typically indicates an
interaction with another person. But we have become so afraid of accusations of
“abuse” that touch has become “taboo”.
We de-sensitize ourselves to the necessity of this kind of human contact
and we become more and more isolated.
The gospel of Mark is a
reminder of the close proximity that people had to one another and to
Jesus. In the
narrative, of both the leader of the synagogue who comes to Jesus on behalf of
his daughter, and the woman who was hemorrhaging, we are reminded that we
cannot separate touch from healing. Vulnerability, touch and presence are all a
part of God’s healing. And in
healing we see God's
Kingdom as a very real presence with us.
Check out this article written 10 years ago about why touch
is important and what happens to us when we miss out. http://www.healingheartpower.com/article1.html
We are called to follow Christ (be present with one
another) we are called to act as Christ does (be a healing presence) we are
created in God’s image – we are created to be healers…It’s no wonder to me that
we find ourselves more isolated from one another and from God as we retreat
into our own private worlds.
I invite you to take some of the suggestions from the
end of the article above and get back in touch with the world around you –
God’s world, our world.
Here are a few of the suggestions:
1 Make time for face to face relating. Don’t let yourself be quite so busy. Pick up the phone and invite a friend or loved one to dinner instead of spending the night on e-mail.
2 Go dancing. Partner dances, like Swing, Cha Cha, Salsa, Waltz, etc., integrate touch at the very heart of the dance.
3 Lend a helping hand. Be proactive. Reach out. Ask permission and be respectful, yet willing to be of support.
4 Pet a dog or cat. Stroking a four-legged animal provides two-way love and affection.
1 Make time for face to face relating. Don’t let yourself be quite so busy. Pick up the phone and invite a friend or loved one to dinner instead of spending the night on e-mail.
2 Go dancing. Partner dances, like Swing, Cha Cha, Salsa, Waltz, etc., integrate touch at the very heart of the dance.
3 Lend a helping hand. Be proactive. Reach out. Ask permission and be respectful, yet willing to be of support.
4 Pet a dog or cat. Stroking a four-legged animal provides two-way love and affection.
Peace and Light
Pastor Erin